In the Constitution it says all people are created equal, but this thinking does not hold true in the fashion industry. Most magazines cater to smaller men and women who are muscular or sizes 0-2. What happens is plus sized men and women feel shunned and rejected for not being what these fashion magazines portray as acceptable. Even the government has its hands in the cookie jar with its constant badgering about Americans being overweight. And then we have to deal with the Network television and movies telling us that we are not worthy.
I am here to tell you that you and I are both worthy and just as attractive as any of those models in the media. Let’s not base attraction solely on appearance but on personality and attitude as well. You have to have the attitude that you are beautiful and sexy. That is first and foremost. If you have a fantastic personality you are already a beautiful person. Once your personality is showing through now is the time to dig deep within yourself and pull out the confidence hidden deep within all of us. Walk with your head held high, your shoulders back and radiate that aura of confidence that is now overwhelming your spirit. Once you’ve done that, the beauty within will come out and you will attract the opposite sex.
When we get on the subject of outer beauty, all of us are guilty of belittling ourselves and saying that we are ugly. We are not ugly, we are as beautiful and sexy as we want to be. I used to put myself down in the same ways as everyone else. Even though my husband would tell me all the time that I was beautiful. It wasn’t until I put my make-up on one day and dressed up when my husband was wanting to do a photo shoot on me that I realized when he showed me the proofs that I am one sexy woman. Now I know that not everyone has a significant other that is a photographer but if you have a digital camera, and time you also can take those photos that will make you feel sexy.
~Venus Diva Brandi Martin