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Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Lady: Tips For “Bootycalling”

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Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Lady: Tips For “Bootycalling”

This weekend I had a chance to view the very much talked about and popular movie, Think Like A Man, directed by Tim Story and inspired by the book, Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man written comedian Steve Harvey. I didn’t know what to expect but I did enjoy the film.

If you’ve read the book, you are well aware of the fact that some of the advice that Steve leaks to his female fans are things that we already know but even the smartest dater needs a crash course from time to time.

I read the book years ago so I don’t remember each chapter.  I’m sure he covered the do’s and dont’s of Bootycalling but again I don’t remember each chapter.

In case you’ve forgotten the rules for “Bootycalling” love/relationship/sex advice expert Rachel Khona has some great tips that you should keep in mind when dating.

  • Don’t pretend it’s a date or a relationship. Call a spade a spade. Sure, things could theoretically change. But don’t start booty calling or accept a booty call in the hopes that it will turn into a relationship. I once had a guy who wanted to take me out to dinner me after I booty called him. Against my senses I went and then I remembered why he was just a booty call. He showed up high and late. When I rebuffed his advances later, his feelings were hurt and I was annoyed that I lost a booty call. At the very least, wait until a month or two has passed to broach the subject of something more.
  • Don’t accept a booty call from someone who likes you. It will likely end in disaster when they realize you don’t feel the same way. Often even when you tell them you don’t, they will still hope things will change. I once had a friend with benefits try to make us into something more and when I turned him down, he marched into a bar that I was in and called me a “maneater” in front of everyone.
  • Don’t wait until the last minute. Sure it’s a booty call but that doesn’t mean it’s OK to call at all hours. People do have to sleep after all.
  • Do not be too wasted to follow through. Especially if you’re a guy. True booty calls often happen when alcohol is involved, but if you’re too inebriated to put wind in your sail, it’s just a waste of time for women. If you booty call me, I expect actual sex and not just a messy makeout sessions followed by passing out.
  • Offer to come over. If you call someone, you have to be ready to go to their place. It’s just the right thing to do. Plus they might already be in bed.
  • Know when to leave. Don’t expect to sleepover. Some people won’t mind if you do, but if they want you out then leave. The next morning don’t start eating breakfast together or doing coupl-y things. Get the hell out.
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