Ladies this one is a tough one but not impossible. Every break-up is difficult and painful and the level of pain depends on how bad it went and who was involved. The loneliness and depression is there and also the anger.
But luckily for you life does go on, to bigger and better things. You’ve got to get out there and find new things to do, perhaps a whole new hobby you always wanted to do but never got around to. Start calling up those good old friends you sort of left in the loop when you were too busy with Mr. Jerk. I am sure your girlfriends have missed you.
Once you get in the swing of things you will start feeling better. A fresh new start is the right way to go and it will spark up your personality.
But what happens when you get invited to ‘the’ party of the year and you just found out he will be there?? OMG! is your first reaction or perhaps a loud curse we won’t repeat in this feature.
Come on, be honest with yourself, you knew this moment would come. This is a small world we live in and bumping into him is going to happen let’s just hope not often. Now that you know, prepare yourself.
- Be your beautiful self
- Dress to Kill
- Smile plenty
Even if you aren’t on speaking terms a simple salutation accompanied with your lovely smile will deliver the right blow to him. Show others that you are not some bitter person acting petty. You are there to have fun and entertain yourself.
Keep your mind open to many possibilities. Like the old saying goes, “It’s not important who is walking out your door, but who is waiting patiently to enter.”
Good luck, dazzle them all and please drop me a line and let me know how that went…